That sounds a bit trollish, but I'm a bad judge of these things anymore. Either way, YIKES. Sometimes the way the burden of responsibility for protecting readers' sensitivities, traumas, etc. has shifted solely to the author makes me want to not write. Like wow I got my own shit, I'm not about to try to tailor something to fit the worldview of hundreds of people I don't even know. But yeah, I agree, hyper-categorization and policing of gender expression is not getting us anywhere. It just kind of comes off as a TERF-y tactic even if that isn't the person's intention.